must haves & can't stands

This is apparently what I marked for my must haves/can't stands when I signed up for compatible partners:

Must Haves:

• Communicator... I must have someone who is good at talking and listening.
• Chemistry... I must feel deeply in love with and attracted to my partner.
• Ambition... I must have a partner who shares my desire to achieve high financial and/or career goals.
• Spiritual Acceptance... My partner must accept and respect my spiritual beliefs, whether they share them or not.
• Shared Politics... I must have someone who has political beliefs which are the same or similar to my own.
• Verbal Intimacy... I must know that my partner is sharing their deepest emotional thoughts and desires.
• Affectionate... I must have someone who is comfortable giving and receiving affection.
• Industriousness... I must have someone who is willing to work hard at whatever they do.
• Kindness... I must have a partner who is gentle and kind.
• Tolerant... I must have a partner who is able to hear and appreciate divergent viewpoints.

Can't Stands:

• Pessimism... I can't stand someone who always sees the glass as half empty.
• Rude... I can't stand someone who is belittling, impatient or hateful to people in any situation.
• Anger... I can't stand someone who can't manage their anger, who yells, or bottles it up inside.
• Cheating... I can't stand someone who takes advantage of people.
• Vanity... I can't stand someone who is overly interested in their physical appearance.
• Dependence... I can't stand someone who bases their happiness on me.
• Racist... I can't stand someone who believes that any particular ethnic group to which they belong is superior to the rest of humanity.
• Lying... I can't stand someone who lies to anyone-especially to me.
• Judgmental... I can't stand someone who finds fault with everyone and everything.
• Gossip... I can't stand someone who loves to talk about other people.